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- LGBTQ
- Defining LGBTQ
- You are not alone – Personal Experiences
- ‘Being Fat and Looking Trans’
- “there are people around you to help”
- “My happily ever after “
- “we can get STD’s as lesbians”
- “I’m happy because I know who I am”
- “How to kill a trans person”
- “Privilege, or how I’m learning to start thinking and hate white men”
- “I’ve decided to accept the label of pansexual”
- “Lesbian sex: Everything to put everywhere!”
- “My trans allies are anything but”
- “Pronouns and privilege”
- ‘a torrent of biphobia’
- “My sexuality is my business”
- “Should I tell them I was gay and face chaos?”
- “I don’t want to live denying I’m gay”
- “My experience of Bisexuality”
- “PC gone mad?”
- “I am who I am. You are who you are. And that’s just fine.”
- “I’m a… a…” “A Lesbian!”
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- Links and Resources
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- Your Questions Answered
- Disabled
- Defining disability
- You are not alone – Personal Experiences
- “the last stigmas”
- “confetti started to fall”
- “the sheer assault of what message these words conveyed”
- “I didn’t know what it was causing the agonising pain”
- “they’re not as distasteful as having a life-threatening illness”
- “Coming out as disabled”
- “untitled” Deafblind mutterings
- “My day to day life with Aspergers”
- “The Spoon Theory”
- “A Limbess Perspective”
- “I didn’t consider myself disabled”
- “How to shake a disabled person’s hand
- “People assume”
- “Through a glass darkly – Living with Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and aspergers Syndrome (AS)”
- “Living with a stammer”
- “What happens in my head when you spell things out to me”
- “I couldn’t date you as my friends would laugh”
- “what it’s actually like to be autistic”
- “The individual is the expert”
- “Being told I was going blind was like having my heart ripped out”
- “The Reality of an Autistic Person”
- “Why don’t dyslexics just use spell checkers?”
- “Knowing M.E., Knowing You (aha)”
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- Mental Health
- Defining Mental Health
- You are not alone – Personal Experiences
- “How to be a good friend to crazyfolk”
- “My ‘journey’ on antidepressants”
- “It Could Never Happen To Me”
- “there are people around you to help”
- “How mental health has affected my studies”
- “Please be patient”
- “I don’t know if I am getting better or worse with them”
- “maybe anti-depressant medication could help”
- “It does get better”
- “I have razors in the post”
- “I can’t seem to distract myself from worries and obsession”
- “Schizo Knock-Back”
- ” The difference between giving in and starting anew”
- “I do consider ending my life”
- “It is a serious issue of feeling safe”
- “How lucky I am to still be here”
- “Don’t go any further”
- “It’s not our fault, it’s our burden”
- “Go to your GP. There is help. Right?”
- “Each flashback is a battle”
- “there is hope”
- “My Silent Undoing”
- “Don’t judge me…?”
- “I found the courage to discuss it”
- “On the Borderline of what?”
- “Trigger Subjects”
- “What’s cold, white and unstable? A Bi-Polar Bear”
- “If I died, it would not be anorexia that tore my family apart: it would be me”
- “When I say I’m feeling low, stop offering to buy me a shot”
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- Experiences of Antidepressants
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- Women
- Defining Women
- Being a Woman
- You are not alone – Personal Experiences
- “I could not walk down my street without looking over my shoulder”
- “coming out as a feminist”
- “How to spot a black woman”
- “My feminist journey so far”
- “I was in an abusive relationship”
- “Don’t judge a book by its cover”
- “You didn’t thank me for punching you in the face”
- “Rape fantasy, not reality”
- “Orgasms – everywhere, except my bedroom”
- “Women and wanking”
- “Experiences of being a fat woman”
- “Not in my nature”
- “mess up + angered father = beating”
- “I find wolf whistling offensive and intimidating”
- “I spent most of my teenage years worrying about the way that I looked”
- “I dread turning on the TV”
- “What’s in a name?”
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- Black
- Defining Black
- You are not alone – Personal Experiences
- “The Staring Game”
- “How to spot a black woman”
- “Where are you from?”
- “I was informed that I do not qualify as Black”
- “Anti semitism is still racism”
- “Writing Angry!”
- “British?”
- “Double standards in liberation”
- “Racism and cocktails”
- “It is clear the murder was driven by Islamophobia and racism”
- “Because…”
- “Racial prejudices still lurks in our everyday lives”
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- Survivors
- Definitions
- Processes of reporting rape
- Statistics and Conviction Rates
- Myth busting
- Consent
- Language and Jargon
- You are not alone – Personal Experiences
- “I trusted him”
- “this wasn’t how it should be”
- “I have waited 8 years”
- “There are no excuses”
- “Why I didn’t and won’t report my rape”
- “For years I didn’t think of myself as someone who had been assaulted”
- “It’s trigger warning week”
- “How my rapist walked free”
- “Rape Rape: What nobody’s telling you”
- “Arguing about rape on the internet”
- “Taken from me”
- “I’m a Survivor”
- “To all those men who don’t think the rape jokes are a problem”
- “I once was a victim for sure, but now I’m a survivor”
- “Three times”
- “Learning to say stop”
- Resources
- Friends, Family & Allies
- feeling fuzzy
Links and Resources
Please find below some links, reading lists and resources that can be used if you want to find out more about the issues Disabled people face. If you have any links to good sites that you would like to be added here please let us know.
Blogs
http://blobolobolob.blogspot.com/2011/05/blogging-against-disablism-day-2011.html
http://disability.typepad.com/blog/
http://autisticsspeakingday.blogspot.com/2011/11/problematic-notion-of-cure.html
Websites
National Union of Students - http://www.nus.org.uk/en/campaigns/disability/
Books
Academic Reading
Videos
Quotes
Congress acknowledged that society’s accumulated myths and fears about disability and disease are as handicapping as are the physical limitations that flow from actual impairment ~William J. Brennan, Jr.
It is a lonely existence to be a child with a disability which no-one can see or understand, you exasperate your teachers, you disappoint your parents, and worst of all you know that you are not just stupid. ~Susan Hampshire
It was ability that mattered, not disability ~Marlee Matlin
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
Although there are many barriers facing people with disabilities today, the single greatest obstacle we face as a community is our own sense of inferiority, internalized oppression and shame ~Sarah Triano
Suicide prevention for you, but suicide enhancement for us. … Society wants the disabled community to have access to a dignified death when we want access to a dignified life ~ Gregor Wolbring
… if I have a bad day, it’s all over. It’s always because of my disability. “Oh, that poor girl, she’s upset because she has a disability” and I’ll say, “No, I’m upset because my boyfriend left me.” “Oh, because he couldn’t deal with the disability?” “No, because I slept with his best friend”..”Oh, you slept with his best friend because you were feeling bad because you have a disability.” ~Ellen Stohl (first playboy playmate with a disability)
“We know that equality of individual ability has never existed and never will, but we do insist that equality of opportunity still must be sought.” ~ Franklin D. Roosevelt
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